The Event

Complete with dinner and drinks, an emotional vow-renewal ceremony and a dance-party reception, The Big Fake Wedding (formerly known as The NotWedding) has become a killer alternative to a bridal show. The hand-selected vendors perform their services as they would at a real wedding, and the “wedding guests” get to hear the music, taste the cakes, and smell the flowers… while enjoying a night of great food, dancing and surprises, leaving brides-and-grooms-to-be saying “I want my wedding to be just like that!”

For brides and grooms, the event serves as a source of inspiration, a resource in finding trusted wedding vendors and an emotional reminder to plan for what comes after the wedding: a marriage! For participating wedding vendors, the event exposes their business to new referral sources, while also exposing each vendor to a wealth of inspiration, resources and confidence to take their business to the next level.

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The History

In 2008, aspiring wedding photographer Callie Murray was looking for a way to effectively build her new business. With the goals of promoting small businesses, inspiring brides and grooms, and encouraging solid marriages, she rallied her wedding industry friends together to create the ultimate wedding experience: a perfectly planned “wedding” where brides- and grooms-to-be could actually see vendors in action.

The inaugural event was a hit, and it became an annual event in Atlanta. Callie has since been joined by an amazing team of people who have helped bring The Big Fake Wedding to cities across the country.

The NYC NotWedding from Nathan Willis Wedding Films on Vimeo.

The 2nd Orlando NotWedding from Bright Frame Films on Vimeo.

The Big Fake Wedding – Top Ten for Guests from The BigFakeWedding on Vimeo.

The Team

One of the reasons we love and appreciate small business is because we are a small business ourselves! Our team of eleven is based outside of Atlanta GA, with two team members in Charleston SC and another in Cape Cod MA. Our hope is to run an efficient and effective business while also maintaining the personal attentiveness that comes with being little.

Callie Murray, Founder/CEO
Callie started The Big Fake Wedding (then called The NotWedding) in 2008 and has been blessed by steady growth of the company in the midst of cross-country moves with her Navy husband and the births of her three little girls. Callie currently manages the staff and handles the big-picture elements of the company: where we’re going next, who’s taking us there, what we are going to do when we get there…

Michal Whitlock, Director of Production
Michal was the first person we ever hired at The Big Fake Wedding, so she has essentially done every job in every capacity at some point. She oversees production and works to make our events as smooth as possible. She is the proud mama to little guys Pace and Whit and her little lady Wesley Olivia.

LaBruce Trammell, Marketing Director
LaBruce was actually the Bride at our first ever Charleston event, and we were so impressed by the way she networked and recruited engaged friends to come that we knew we needed her on our team! LaBruce manages our media partnerships and marketing efforts, and she ensures that each event is packed with great guests who are ready to wedding-plan and party.

Julia DeBruler, Director of Administration
Julia is basically The Big Fake Wedding Headquarters. She handles the emails and all the behind-the-scenes stuff that keeps The Big Fake Wedding in motion, and she holds the fort at the office M-F. She also heads up a few special projects like our Intern Program.

Natalia Curran, Account Executive
Natalia has a Masters in Social Work, so people are her specialty. She loves getting to know our vendors and truly figuring out what they need in their businesses and how The Big Fake Wedding can meet those needs. Chances are, you’ll love her immediately.

Austin Hubbard, Account Executive
Austin has worked in corporate event planning for years, and she has this incredible way of being positive and fun while somehow remaining so calm (isn’t that exactly what you want in someone handling the details of your party?!). Austin is in charge of bringing on stellar vendors in a number of our cities.

Hannah Gregus, Account Executive
Hannah’s discipline and determination (you should see her CrossFit skills!) along with her sharp sense of humor and easy-going personality allow her to get-things-done while also bringing a ton of joy to the team. Hannah handles curating vendors in a bunch of our cities!

Jamie Bohlin, Account Executive
Jamie is the reason The Big Fake Wedding finally decided to expand outside of its hometown in Atlanta. Thanks to some (respectful and professional!) persistence on Jamie’s end, we were convinced that The Big Fake Wedding could in fact happen abroad. Jamie is the owner and lead coordinator of Cape Cod Celebrations, and she is a master at finding awesome vendors.

Samantha Cole, Production Manager
Samantha has a way of making you feel valued and important. Couple this with her attention to detail and her years of experience in wedding coordination and you have a girl who can produce the heck out of a fake wedding.

Liz Franklin, Production Manager
Liz has a background in Public Relations, and when that is combined with her love for people and small businesses, she becomes an excellent vendor “coach” whose aim is to guide our vendors through The Big Fake Wedding process so that they can get all that they can out of the experience.

Chloe Fusselman, Marketing Assistant
With a background in bridal fashion, Chloe knows how to help a bride look her very best…and she also knows how to help our vendors look their very best. She supports our marketing efforts with an excitement and zest that are contagious! In her spare time, she also explores her city (the glorious Charleston, SC) and her fashion sense on Topknots & Polkadots.